Ever heard the saying when life hands you lemons, make lemonade? When we go through things in life including failed relationships, we tend to gravitate on giving up on finding a love that will work for us, instead of learning from that past experience to be able to better choose our next relationship. Life is all about keeping a positive outlook, no matter what may happen, in hope for the future, instead of in angst for the past. If we just for one moment give up on love, we may miss someone who may have truly been meant for us.

When we leave our hearts open for love it is important to not forget about the past. We must definitely take time to grieve and get past our last love before starting a new one. We must also put ourselves first for a while, fall in love with yourself again, because the pain from past relationships can easily take a toll on one emotionally physically and spiritually. When you are ready for love again you will know, just remember to find a person for you that you will really be able to love for the right reasons, and a person that will really love you for the same.