Family knows better. They are ones whom you first came in Contact with.It is foolish to argue saying, "oh, I have my life to live and she is my pot of gold, without her there is nothing". In fact, it is the other way around. Without your family, you were nothing, and you would be nothing, if you forsake them. More so, she loved you in the first place, is because of what your Family had made you into.
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