I hate when a mother prevents the father of her children from seeing his kids because she is mad that he moved on, or she just wants to be mean for no reason at all. I hate when fathers gets into a new relationship with a woman that has kids, and he take care of her kids better than he take care of his own kids. I hate when a mother constantly tells a child that his/her father is a bad person and a deadbeat. If that is true, then your child will see that without you telling them, but you should never teach your kids to hate their father. I hate that some fathers think that paying child support is the only thing that their kids need from them. Children need and deserve to have their father in their lives. Don't think that your money will ever be a substitute for not being in their lives and spending quality time with them.