i have to feel responsible for things I have committed. doesn't matter if ive said them or did them. people around me shouldnt feel pain for my breakdowns ,when world that I live in is going under and dragging me with it. some people say that a man or a woman will love you just the way you are ,so you dont have to change yourself for others. well ,thats yours and ONLY yours decision. but when we are angry ,not satisfied ,we are blaming or putting our anger on the person standing near. and we get our anger on him/her. imagine being that person. what would you do? slap him? hate him back? ignore? leave? never speak again? you dont know what the person standing next to you will do. and its no about love. its about responsibility. that kind of responsibility of managing your anger and not throw it to the person who cares about you