Saying sorry doesn't mean there isn't guilt and forgiving doesn't mean the pain is gone.
Depending on saying sorry later, and getting caught up in a moment that you know very well that you shouldn't allow yourself to be caught up in, is a certain way to live a life headed down a path of construction and full of pain.
Actions speak louder than words. We can apologize over and over, but if our actions don't change, the words become meaningless.
As we surf this wave of life, we have to remember that just speaking what we should or shouldn't speak won't necessarily get us anywhere. What we do greatly affects what our ultimate destiny will become, and what we do also helps to paint a picture of who we really are in the lives of over.
Laugh when you can, apologize when you should, and let go of what you can't change.
Life consists of many aspects, and there are many keys and principles that we must learn to accumulate the most success. One thing that we must do in life is to laugh when we can. Laughter is great for us emotionally, physically, and spiritually, because of its natural healing effects, and stress reducers.
Apologizing does not always mean that you're wrong and the other person is right. It just means that you value your relationship more than your ego.
Sometimes when we quarrel with someone we share a relationship with we must learn to let go, and apologize for what they found that we may have done that offended them. Even when we feel adamant about being right, and even when we feel that we shouldn't be the one to apologize, sometimes we must think if the relationship is worth losing, or if our pride can take one hit just one single time, in order to save something so precious.
