Everything that you do should be done out of love. If we choose to live our life controlled by negative feelings influenced by negative thoughts, negative words, and negative actions, then not only would be living a life without love, we would be living a life with no other meaning but to cause pain in destruction in other people's lives.

When we deal with other people in life we are forced to deal with concerns and issues that arise when people fellowship with each other as well. As it is easy to condemn others, and to have a real good chance of being right in what we say, it is our duty to stay away from condemnation, and to show them love, even when all logic tells us not to. Condemning a person may work in changing their attitude for a while, but it will only change an attitude because it causes fear, not because the attitude is being changed out of love.