Even though we tell ourselves and everyone around us that we are over someone it doesn't necessarily mean that it is true. In order for us to live our lives to the fullest it is best to cope with the pain in our lives that we encounter due to heart break. In trying to get over someone we are making the decision to try to rid ourselves of the painful emotions that we are experiencing due to the sentiment that we lost a love that we in a way depended upon to function.

Getting over someone isn't easy, but is in fact an obtainable goal. One must be willing to make a valiant effort to putting the focus that was once reserved for someone else on developing their lives and making themselves the best that they can possibly be. When you are getting over someone take time to learn about yourself again, re-learn who you are, and actively involve yourself in doing the things that you love. You must take the pain that you are feeling and channel it into energy in order to produce positivity in your own life.