I cheated. I made a big-time, immature mistake that I believe everyone needs to go through and I take positive and negative from it. But I dont even know who it was. I didnt have sex with a girl, I just kissed a girl. Regardless, I take cheating really seriously and Ive always taken it seriously, but you dont take things seriously until it really happens to you. Then you change. I definitely learned a lot from what I did. It was a stupid mistake. I loved her a lot and she was my best friend, but I say its a blessing because I didnt cheat on my wife. Then I would have been the biggest idiot. I'm still an idiot, its just better to learn these things when youre young