One of the reason God does allow bad things to happen & don't answer us when we cry out to him to give us answers for small painful things, is because he knows that we learn from them. We are human beings, God greatest build creature, we learn from our mistakes, we adjust to our climate, we are born with the most sophisticated computer ever build, our own brains, we are born builders, we fix things to work for us to make our own lives better, when we fall we get up, we are survivors, we look for adventures, not every thing bad that happens to us in our life, we will run to our Father God and say God why did you make this happen to me? But then not all of us are strong, it do have a few weak ones, who love to complain to their Father & blame him for every thing that goes bad in their own life, they are the ungrateful ones, they hates life. Me? I thank God for the honor that he give to me, & the privilege of being a human being, a product that he build in his own image!