Everyone wants to be loved. But first we must make ourselves lovable. We must prepare ourselves to be loved. We do this by becoming ourselves loving, disciplined human being. If we seek to be loved, if we expect to be loved, this cannot be accomplished, we will be dependent and grasping, not genuinely loving. But when we nurture ourselves, and others without a primary concept of finding reward, then we will have become lovable, and the reward of being loved, which we have not sought, will find us! So, it is with human love, and so it is with God's love.