There are generally only two options that we have when we deal with our pasts. We can choose to let our pasts limit us, and make us bitter, or we can choose to let our pasts make us better. We must understand that who we were in the past is nowhere equal to the person that we can be in the future. The trials and tribulations that we experienced in our pasts may not be held as a guarantee that our future will be full of the same tribulation and pain.

Not every person will experience the same circumstances, and yes, some will have it better than others, but make no mistake, no one's life is perfect, and everyone must experience rain to appreciate the sunshine. Affirm the positivity in your life by believing in the fact that good things and a good life will come to you if you are willing to put in the effort to make your life more positive.