While you cannot remove your blood from the family tree,you can try to manage it, by keeping any jealous family member out of your personal business. Do not feel guilty that you are pulling away by not sharing your life story with them. Sometimes,you just have to love them, from far away(Arms length)that simple.It is easy to feel that you are being the bad guy,when you are simply trying to protect yourself from repetitive childhood display of nonsense.Distance seems to be the best prescription for this type of pain.it sucks I know, but in time,you will either find that your absence has made their heart grow fonder for you or that nothing has changed.At the end of the day my friends,all we can do is forgive them,so that you're not consumed by their bitterness and hate. Forgive them so you can ultimately release their hold over you and your emotions.Forgive them for their lack of disrespect towards you.-Forgive them because ultimately you do Love them,for that reason you are letting go!