We all have a different set of experiences from which we draw from to help ourselves move in the present. When we see someone going through something that we may have already gone through ourselves we are often tempted to give advice drawing from our own experiences, and forget the simple fact that people just need someone to listen instead of being told what to do.

Being a good listener is part of being a true friend. People are rarely ever born with great wisdom, and no one will make the best decisions for themselves all of the time. Part of truly loving people is realizing this, and proceeding forward with this knowledge.

Never be an enabler of pain, but be willing to put your advice aside sometimes and give people what they really need; a hug for warmth, an ear for listening, and a shoulder to cry on.