Life is too short to waste any amount of time wondering what other people think about you , is just not worth it! Besides you are not in this world to live up to anyone's expectations but your own ! At the end of the day whatever you say or whatever you do at a given moment in time can- be easily mistranslated or twisted by ppl who you hold to heart! I guess hated on is part of life , Sad but true !.There are haters everywhere and they come in many forms . Even the closest to you (friends /family /etc )can be your enemies in disguise ! So be careful out there. They are no different than shadows that stick around during your brightest moments, but disappear during your darkest hours ! Stay away from those negative haters, You don't need people with fake smiles/hugs to be happy, all you need is a few real friends who appreciate you for exactly who you are and love you for you!! .. Rare as true love is, true friendship is still rarer!!